Gil and I decided to have the big party in Utah, where a lot of his extended family live. The second weekend in March, we headed to Provo. It was nice to separate the two events; we spent all of Saturday setting up and decorating the gym of the chapel where my brother attends his church meetings.
Gil, who has inherited his mom's artistic ability, made the room look spectacular. There was string lights and tulle crisscrossing the room and draped all over. We had three panels of quotes and pictures and a panel for advice.
Gil's mother really liked one of our engagement photos and painted her own interpretation of it for us. She is very talented.
Gil and I with his mission president and his wife, Brother and Sister Cannon.
My dear friend Ruth. She wasn't able to make it to our Texas festivities so she came up to Utah. She was a willing soul when it came to getting the room decorated.
Adam was our MC.
Gil and I had quite the dance. We started with some hip-hop...
...then some bollywood...
...some swing, salsa, and then a nice slow dance.
My dad, dancing for the first time in his life. He did great. What a sweet man he is.
Gil and his mom after their dance.
Our mutual friend Aubie Evans and her little guy James. Aubrie is the one who set us up. Thanks, Aubrie!
Um... are we doing this correctly?
We played a game where we each hold one of our own and one of the other's shoes. We sit back to back (so we can't see each other) and a third party asks questions. We answer those questions by raising the shoe of the appropriate person. "Who is the better cook?" (We would both hold up Gil's shoe.) I couldn't find my shoes so was in my sneakers all night. I still haven't found them...
Two smiling mothers!
And, because this is my blog, my dear, wonderful, handsome, brother.
...who our photographer had a crush on:
























