December 31, 2024

2024 Reading List

Time for my 2024 reading list.  It was an incredibly busy year and I was surprised when I looked back to see what I was able to read.  A somewhat expected, somewhat eclectic list this year.  Let me know what you're reading!

Books I loved and recommend:

The Boys in the Boat, Daniel James Brown
This was a second or third read for me and I enjoyed it regardless.  Even though you know what is going to happen, it is still edge of your seat reading.  Our book group read it and had a wonderful discussion.  What a wonderful and true story.  Gil and I saw the movie and thought it was so-so.

The Giver of Stars, Jojo Moyes
I listened to the audio book and can't help wondering if/how this influenced how much I LOVED (!!) this book.  WOW!  It was as if Moyes took The Bookwoman of Troublesome Creek (far below) and I Know Why the Crawdads Sing (didn't like from a few years ago) and showed both authors how to write a book.  I loved the relationships, I loved the story, I loved getting to know about the packhorse librarians, and I loved the setting though at times had trouble remembering this was 1930s America.  

Prisoners of Geography, Tim Marshall
I've always loved geography.  In grad school, my favorite class was an undergrad geography class about how the land/topography influenced settlement patterns in the US.  Fascinating.  This book is kind of the same thing but on a world scale.  An interesting look at how the land influences so many things.

Elantris, Brandon Sanderson
I loved this book.  I love the idea of giving a person a purpose and how much that purpose can pull them out of their despair.  I loved the intrigue, the political maneuvering, I loved the conflicting religious sects... such an enjoyable read.

Tress of the Emerald Sea, Brandon Sanderson
A second or third read of this book.  We read it for our book group and I loved it as much this time as I did the first.  A sea-going world where the ocean is not water and a heroine who thinks through her decisions instead of dashing off without care.  So many little jewels of wisdom in this book too.

The ABC Murders, Agatha Christie
Another book group read.  Agatha Christie is always a winner.  This book was a bit more of a psychological thriller than a mystery or suspense.  I'd figured out most of the main structure of the book, but reading and filling in/finding the details was fun.

Think Again, Adam Grant
A non-fiction about changing your mind.  It was a really interesting read.  I've read a few of his opinion pieces as well and agree with most of what he says.  I think a big take away for me was how we're willing to change our wardrobe, change the pillows on the couch, change out our phones without much trouble, but change our minds?  Nope.  Also, he says it's okay to give up on something.  While effort is important, if it's not producing results, we need to change the way we're going about it or stop all together.

Cloud Cuckoo Land, Anthony Doerr
My brother-in-law's wife suggested this one.  It took me a while to get into it but once I did, I couldn't put it down.  It is a bit raw, but I really enjoyed how the one story/book was woven through the different timelines in such a beautiful way.  A book about the influence of a book.

The Arrival, The Centaur Hero Book 1, Stormin Brooks
This book took up a little over six months of my year.  A friend from grad school asked if I'd be interested in helping her husband edit his story.  I thought, why not.  I had no idea how I'd be sucked in to this project and thoroughly enjoyed it.  Stormin was able to self-publish in November.  A story of mental health and healing set in a fantasy world.  Be prepared for plenty of 80s and early 90s references!


Books I enjoyed or found interesting but would not necessarily recommend:

Deliberate Cruelty, Roseanne Montillo
I was looking for available audio books for a road trip and the title interested me.  I had no idea who Ann Woodward was, or Truman Capote's swans.  Interesting as far as it's a true story of a time I'm not as familiar with in US history, but not much past that.

Educated, Tara Westover
The only reason this is here and not in the "not recommend" section is the wonderful discussion I had about it with Gil.  This was also an audio book.  I enjoyed the beginning, then I started to doubt how true the story was, and then it started to get repetitive, "that one line changed my life," "that one lyric changed my life" over and over.  

The Running Grave, Robert Galbraith
Whoa!  Was this an eerie book!  Number I don't know in this mystery series, this book revolved around a cult and it is just eerie.  Loved it, but caution for strong language and violence.

The Princess Bride, William Goldman
I read this book probably ten years ago and didn't remember what I thought starting it again.  I've always loved the movie and when it was suggested for our book group, I was excited to reread.  It was fun, but I found myself not enjoying it as much as I thought I would.  Goldman is a excellent writer though.  Our book group discussion was mainly quoting the movie.

Maisie Dobbs, Jacqueline Winspear
A recommendation from a friend.  It's the first book in the series and I need to read at least one or two more since this was mainly set-up/intro of the main character.  It didn't strike me as a mystery, though it's touted as such.  The writing is excellent.

Defiant, Brandon Sanderson
The final book in the series and it almost felt like Sanderson was just trying to finish so he could move on to projects he was more interested in.  It had also been awhile since I'd read the prior books in the series so I was a bit lost due to things I'd forgotten.  Don't know if I'm up to reading the whole thing again though just to see if I change my mind.

The Sunlit Man, Brandon Sanderson
One of Samderson's Secret Projects.  An interesting place where the sunlight can kill you and the population is constantly moving in order to stay ahead of it.  There were some references to other books that I didn't understand and that was a bit frustrating but an enjoyable story with plenty of suspense.

In Cold Blood, Truman Capote
A roommate many years ago said this was her favorite book and I've been meaning to read it ever since.  After listening to Deliberate Cruelty, I decided it was time.  I can't imagine how much time Capote spent researching this book, talking to people, getting to know the people involved.  An incredibly well-written account of an atrocious murder.  Caution for language and violence.

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society, Mary Ann Shaffer, Annie Barrows
This was a book club book pick.  We will discuss it in Feb.  I loved the writing.  Loved it.  The story itself was okay, a bit too far-fetched for my taste which put it on this list, but I loved the light and airy feel of the writing.

The Maid and The Mystery Guest, Nita Prose
A friend recommend the first book in the series and I found it quite enjoyable.  The main character is on the spectrum (are we allowed to say that?) which makes everything very literal for her.  A fun mystery that kept me guessing on the perpetrator until the end.  The second book was an interesting read as well, quite the mystery.  The stories are interesting but I think the writing is a bit weak.

The Covenant of Water, Abraham Verghese
This book was a recommendation from a friend and with her nursing background I can see why she enjoyed it so much.  It's loooong, wow, but I made it through.  I read a book last year that took place in India and I wasn't impressed so I was a bit hesitant to read this one.  I was surprisingly interested in the medical side of the story, somewhat drawn into the lives of the people, not impressed with the twist at the end, and salivated when food was described.  I was inspired to get an Indian cookbook and have a new, incredibly flavorful, favorite meal from it.


Books I did not like and would not recommend:

The Narrow Road Between Desires, Patrick Rothfuss
Another novella by Rothfuss, author of The Name of the Wind.  I was very confused throughout this whole book, not sure at all what was going on and really didn't care for it at all.  I don't see how it fits into the main story either.

The Westing Game, Ellen Raskin
I was about a chapter in when I realized what I was reading sounded familiar.  I'd tried a few years ago to read this book and just couldn't get into it.  I decided to make it all the way to the end.  Meh.  A scavenger hunt in print, I guess, but not for me.

Say Nothing, Patrick Radden Keefe
I was really interested in this book when I stumbled across it.  I'd always wanted to learn more about the IRA and the conflict in Northern Ireland.  This is not the book for that.  The first two thirds has too many people and jumps around way to much to make sense of what's going on.  People are in prison, and then they're not but its earlier in the timeline, not after their release.  There's a bomb, but then it's earlier in the timeline...  Was this conflict every really resolved?  After so many years did folks even remember why they were fighting?  The last third of the book is the conflict over the interview tapes of those involved. That was very interesting to me.  I would like to read more about "The Troubles" but with a better written book.

The Book Woman of Troublesome Creek, Kim Michele Richardson
Wow, I really did not like this book!  After reading The Giver of Stars, I wanted to read more about the packhorse librarians.  This was not the book for it.  The motivations of the characters were not believable and too often I felt the author was telling me how I should be feeling.  As I've said before, if you write the story well, you don't have to spell out to the reader how they should react.  Also, a Kentucky blue person is not the same as a black person.  Using a derogatory term for one on the other really riled me.

November 16, 2024

San Diego

Lauren and I enjoyed our first Mommy and Lauren trip this week to San Diego.  We drove out and checked into our hotel room.  This table and chair were just Lauren's size.
We went to Cabrillo National Monument in the morning.  We toured the lighthouse...

... and did some yoga on the beach.
We had pizza for dinner.
The next day we went to the Children's Museum.

I love this little girl and love how she asks if I remember when we went on a trip, just us.  She's growing so fast.  I look forward to more Mommy and Lauren trips in the future!

October 19, 2024

McDowell Sonoran Preserve

This is my new favorite place to hike in the valley.  It's in Scottsdale so a bit of a drive, but totally worth it!  The have a fabulous trail system with a variety of lengths perfect for little legs and grown-up legs.  The trails are well marked and maintained.

Our stake is having a stake hike next weekend and since Gil and I are on the team that plans these, we decided we should check it out first.  We woke up to rain and cooler temperatures.  We didn't mind the former and were beyond ready for the latter so we headed out.

We did a short mile or so hike which is about the limit for the kids.  I can't wait to go next weekend, and the one after that, and the one after that to explore this new spot.


October 9, 2024

Conference and Joshua Tree

We headed to southern California this past weekend to watch Conference with Gil's cousin and her family.  We were able to go to his Aunt and Uncle's on Sunday and spend the day with more cousins there too.  It is always wonderful to get together with family!
Gil took an extra day off and we camped in Joshua Tree on the way home.  It hadn't cooled that much but that meant we kept the rain fly off the tent and got to look at the stars at night through the Joshua tree arms.  It also meant we had the campground almost entirely to ourselves which was really nice.



We did a hike in the morning before it got too hot, worked on Junior Ranger badges, and did some sightseeing from the car as it got too hot to be out.  Wesley loves having a map even though he can't quite read it yet.  Lauren likes having a map because her brother has one.

I love this place.  Definitely planning another trip for more exploring but in cooler weather.

August 30, 2024

Swimming

We love to swim!  We have a wonderful neighborhood pool less than a mile from our house.  My only complaint is that when school starts, all the lifeguards go back to school and the pool closes during the week.  No so bad, you say?  Well, when school starts in the middle of July and the summer heat persists for another two and a half months?

Our wonderful neighbors offered us the use of their pool this summer and we readily accepted.  They live kitty-corner from us so super close.  Wesley loves to jump in his battery-powered Jeep and drive himself and Lauren over.  It's darling.

Wesley also loves cleaning the already spotless pool.  It's a tool and my boy loves working with tools.
Lauren became much more confident in the water this summer.
Thank you, Longs!!

August 10, 2024

Lauren's First Haircut

We'd been debating about cutting Lauren's hair for a while.  It wasn't long, it just looked like she was growing and very fluffy mullet.  We finally decided to cut it to see if it would grow in more evenly and a bit more thick.

My beautiful girl!

July 22, 2024

Zion, Cedar Breaks, and Nonna and Papa

The kids and I were able to spend a week in St. George with my parents.  Gil stayed home and got some projects done around the house without his usual 'helpers.'

We left early Monday morning and stopped for lunch at Jacob Lake, right at the turn for the north rim Grand Canyon.  

Wesley got into my mom's jewelry box and decked himself out.
Kids and I headed up to Zion National Park.  It was incredibly hot and surprisingly crowded for how hot it was.  Highlights for the kids were riding on the shuttle bus and filling up water bottles at the wall of spigots.  Zion is gorgeous and I'd love to go back again when it's not so hot.
We got some good cousin play time too.
Wednesday, we went up, up, up the mountain to Cedar Breaks National Monument with Nonna and Papa.  (PS - school started in Chandler that day.  I felt really smug hiking and adventuring with my five year old who wasn't starting kindergarten.)  It was WONDERFUL!!  The temp when we pulled up to the visitor center was in the mid 60s.  We hiked and enjoyed the beautiful views.  We had a picnic and watched an afternoon thunder shower.  We hadn't seen rain in forever and the temps dropped into the 50s.  Such a wonderful outing and break from the heat.


Wesley listening to, as he calls it, 'Gentlemen's' Conference on Nonna's headphones.
Of course, a trip to St. George is going to include a day at the Children's Museum!

Worn out!  My parents took the kids for the morning and they played hard as seen here by a completely zonked Lauren.
We love visits with Nonna and Papa!  Thanks for letting us come and invade!

July 9, 2024

Allred Reunion 2024

We love the Allreds!  The Allred reunion is quite the big ta-do and we're so grateful to the D&D Allred's for organizing a wonderful event.

Loaded and ready to go!  The reunion was at a California State Park campground in Malibu.
Wesley takes his responsibility of cleaning the windshield very seriously.
There were quite a few Minute-to-Win-It type activities this year.  Wesley is taking some time to consider how to get the Oreo from his forehead to his mouth without using his hands.
The new tent served us well this weekend and the picnic table Gil made for the kids was very handy to have as well.
We had a beach day.  Lauren as a mermaid.


This little girl got incredibly dirty.  If they'd had the dirty baby/toddler contest, she would have won.
The campground was close to where the tv show MASH was filmed.  Gil and Wesley did a hike one morning with some of the cousins to check out the location.
Next, they found a hidden spring.
Wesley was absolutely set on having a candy stand.  We got a few items in the bulk section of our grocery store and then set it up.  He was in heaven manning his shop and handing out candy to the cousins.
We had to leave early enough Saturday morning to make it to a Home Depot to complete the kid's workshop project.  How lovely the weather is nice enough in southern CA to have it outside in the parking lot.

June 9, 2024

Camping, again

It got hot fast here.  So hot.  On the hottest day to date, Thursday, our air conditioner broke.  Of course.  Thankfully, my wonderful Gil is an HVAC tech and knew immediately how to fix it.  It took a little bit, but we were back at a comfortable temperature by mid-morning Friday.

To escape the heat, we decided to head back up to the Rim.  We got a new tent (so exciting!) and took off Friday afternoon.  We snagged a campsite, set up camp, and enjoyed a lovely afternoon, night, and morning in the woods.
Gil is our camp cook extraordinaire!  I prep everything at home and he gets it all cooked at camp.  This time we made kabobs for dinner and they were delicious.

In the morning, we took a hike around a mountain lake, then headed over to the Rim Visitor Center. 
We didn't linger but headed home to make it in time to meet my high school friend and her family in Scottsdale.  They were embarking on a bus tour of the Grand Canyon, Zion, Bryce, and other sites along the way.  We met them at their hotel and took advantage of the resort pool.  So good to see her and catch-up.  Could have used another few hours.  I am so blessed to have good friends.